vmac + cheese is defo one of my fave sites and i love guest posting for victoria. she’s so stylish, knowledgeable and kind, always keeping her readers best interest in mind, and she’s always very generous with her content, too! when she asked me to create a fresh spring beauty tutorial, i grabbed my fave products, photog paul milaire and a friend (my model, jen of her waise choice who so looks beautiful bare-faced!) to work with me on the project. it’s a look that honestly works for all of us, and i’m sharing some pro tips and tricks that you may not have heard before! read more…
a few weeks ago, jen and i collaborated on a cute hair tutorial video! jen came up with the idea to document her hair styling process – she curls it with a flat iron, and i’m always all “jen your hair looks awesome!”, so i personally, was very interested to see exactly how to curl with a flat iron!
i tried it myself, and i just can’t get the process down – i’m terrible doing my own hair… we didn’t film that part, sorry (this means i’ll be referring to the vid myself on the reg). that aside, it takes a lot of work to produce a quality tutorial!
first, a cohesive storyline is created. we considered what was important to communicate, and how to make the lesson as appealing as possible. of course, for us this meant pastries, flowers and red lippy! whenever i see the finished version of a creative tutorial, i always forget how much time and patience it takes to create. multiple shots, and angles are required to get the piece to fit together, not to mention props, and a pretty space. it was such a fun and creative process to be a part of! we shot it at my place, and ava had to make a cameo.
after a pretty rocky start to my week, i’m feeling a little unsettled. i’ve been reflecting a little bit about who i am, and how that affects how others treat me; i am a strong believer in the credo of ‘you teach people how to treat you’.
i should definitely preface by saying that i have a lot to learn about life, and i always try to stay curious, compassionate and above all, gracious (little secret: my one tattoo is of this word, after hearing sjp so thoughtfully recite a quote relating to the word when i was 21). however, if there’s one thing i know in life, it’s how to be a good friend… how to listen, and really, how to truly ‘be there’ for someone. being a good friend is a priority for me. the hard truth is that sometimes when you tend to be a giver, you run into takers. the truth is, but there’s been many times (too many to count), that i’ve been stung by a taker. even friendships that i’ve had for years, when the time came for said friend to show support, radio silence was returned. it’s left me thinking about the quote above:
there’s always something so awesome about a chance to start over. you’ve learned a lot in the last year, and may have figured out that there are some changes you’d like to make to really make 2014 your year. new year resolutions? not exactly.
personally, i’m thinking about changes that are easy to incorporate into a routine for the new year. i’ve never been one to record goals, but i feel like there are definitely little tweaks that can really make a difference to your quality of life. here are my 7 easy ideas to make your 2014 awesome.
get fitted: seriously, it changed my life last year. i won’t tell you more here… just read about my experience here and then step in to your nearest lingerie shop to get those babies in check.
organize your digital photos: we’re in a whirlwind of digital these days, and it’s easy to forget to organize your snaps. i can’t tell you how many times i’ve gone looking for an image, and can’t find it because my folders are a shoddy disaster. this year, i plan to sort this out, decide what i want to get printed for wall art, and keep with the momentum for good. i would suggest categorizing by year, and then making individual photo albums (folders) by milestone. the images are tagged with dates within the file info, which is helpful. and please, back up your images to an external hard drive. i don’t plan on using “the cloud” for these important files! memories are important so keep them organized.
remember that this too shall pass: 2013 was a year of major personal and professional struggles for me, and somehow i’ve always chosen to just trust the process. whenever i’m going through a more difficult period, this saying always rings in my head and is one my mom always instilled in us. try this: think about yourself two months from a difficult moment, and realize that the world will not have crumbled, and you will be just fine. you always have been and always will be. things work out the way they are supposed to. on a lighter note, if you feel those moments of “why isn’t that happening for me”, realize that these feelings are normal and temporary. you’ll have your moment to shine one day soon, too!
talk about festive! my gf megan and i created these super cute and unique diy confetti beauty poppers for glitter guide, a spin on those traditional christmas crackers, and the outcome was a whole lotta sparkle! i love this idea, and honestly, it isn’t hard at all. if you aren’t into gold (you better just turn around now), use any colour you like! you could stuff them with whatever you prefer – of course, had to fill them with beauty goodies! add a place card, and these are perfect on your tablescape. they are also perfect for a gift – make a batch, and keep them on hand throughout the season. enjoy!